Potential
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Potential

“I have no control over how long it will take me to burn off this disrespectful pudge. I do, however, have full control over how I view my current self. And pudge aside, I’m that one.”

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Cloak
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Cloak

“God allowed me the privilege of meeting a self-actualized individual, unfazed by my compliments, to remind me that outside validation is never the goal…when you’re simply being yourself on purpose.”

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OkBye
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OkBye

“Apparently, the demons in my bloodline now think I have a boyfriend. In their minds, a man has to be the only reason for my averted attention. Years of being lied on, purposefully triggered, and ostracized never played a factor in their minds.”

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ISWIS
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ISWIS

“I was emotionally constipated, internally and externally. That led to a break in my psyche. And the solution that my brain came up with was self-mutilation.”

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T.K.O
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T.K.O

“Shame crept over my psyche with the thought of how she’ll feel about me when I have the inevitable conversation with her about my abortions.”

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Destruction
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Destruction

“…the quickest way to meet the emotionally unhinged version of me is by offending my oversized ego.”

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Petty
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Petty

“If I said “it took everything out of me not to text the group chat today”…I’d be understating the heightened sense of petty I’ve been feeling since my eyes opened this morning.”

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KattCall
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KattCall

“I asked my ‘family’ to get therapy so we could heal…and they spent the next few years painting me as a crazy person. Only for God to turn around and prove my sanity.”

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Lessons
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Lessons

“The truth is my lack of trust in God has been at the core of my distrust in everything else.“

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Candor
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Candor

“This has led to a long term relationship with my ‘fupa’. I lovingly refer to her as Princess Fiona (Fifi). By day…she’s flat from my constant sucking in’ness. By night…she is fully extended, rendering her daytime self unrecognizable.”

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Aloneness
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Aloneness

“I never wanted to admit that my group chat rants were also driven by a large percentage of codependency on my part. Honestly speaking…I wasn’t ready to completely be alone.”

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Latex
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Latex

“At this point my insecurities feel like a latex, full bodysuit that I’m required to wear underneath all of my clothes…daily. So…it now knows every inch of me.”

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Cope
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Cope

“As kids, we were taught we’d be met with our mother’s silence if we went against what she wanted. As we got older, that conditioning settled in and we figured out ways around being emotionally discarded by our matriarch.”

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FreeFeels
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FreeFeels

“I think the worst part of being told I was diagnosed with a disorder that renders me emotionally imbalanced, is having to constantly weigh my behavior against those who haven’t been diagnosed…yet. It’s mildly annoying.’.”

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SoulCry
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SoulCry

“Realizing how many situations lay on the path behind me, orchestrated for the sole purpose of breaking my soul…brought a sense of gratitude I’ve never felt before.“

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FakeIt
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FakeIt

“…this detached approach to life reminded me that there hasn’t been much growth in my mentality since my days of discarding my own seeds. I have just replaced that sacrifice of life with another version.”

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WillPwr
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WillPwr

“I’ve perfected the art of playing victim. It took many years to get the formula correct…but after adding a sprinkle of ‘martyrdom’…I finally became the perfect victim.”

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DeMask
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DeMask

I love giving unsolicited advice.

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NoMoreNoLess
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NoMoreNoLess

“Having this understanding gives me insight on why it feels like my ‘mother’ is sabotaging my efforts to start this conversation. If we were to go to counseling, her parenting style would eventually be the topic of conversation.”

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AsIs
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AsIs

“Accepting what is, is a fairly new adjustment technique of mine. The act allows me to let go of my heightened false sense of control and it shifts my focus to the present moment.”

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