MuddaFudda

“I’ve noticed that most men can’t acknowledge their childhood trauma. Which makes their aggression, towards the women they date, passive. Because they were never allowed to voice past hurt to their mothers. So they grow up manifesting Elmer Fudd and Bugs Bunny type relationships. The women they choose become the targets they can never hit because we’re the symptom…not the root cause of pain. If Elmer was a love interest of mine, I’d tell him that his refusal to stop shooting blanks…is a direct result of his inability to hit the button of accountability on his mom. And until he has the hard conversations with her…he’ll continue to attract perceived betrayals that mimic the ones he was never given permission to address in his childhood.”