CalmRage

I decided to FaceTime my niece today to talk about her performance and ultimately let her know why I will no longer be taking on a responsibility that belongs to her mother. But I was met with the discovery that I’ve been blocked…from an iPad that I bought her. My little sister often does this when I try to set a boundary that interrupts her ability to dictate how she wants me to move. I thought buying the iPad would prevent the blocked communication but…it didn’t. When I realized the block was in place, my rage urged me to run to the chat and detail all the events that had led to this point. I stopped myself though. Because my common sense told me that’s exactly what was expected. So after having a mini emotional break down, in the parking lot of the grocery store, I calmly carried on with my day.