WorkersComp

“Healthy relationships require equal effort. This seems obvious…but not everyone can see past their ego. Those who can’t, put all the responsibility on their insignificant other. Because they see themselves as the prize. I used to see this mindset as red pill rhetoric, until I realized it’s a result of maternal conditioning…that put all the emphasis on being taken care of. Which is normal in childhood. But if the requirement for emotional reciprocity never comes…someone compromising their self-respect, to throw their back out working for you, feels…normal. And this lop sided love becomes the sTAnDaRd for anyone who falls for you…until you meet someone who makes you pay them for that pain.”