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“I finally got a text back from my sister but…no details about the party were included. After 2 months of her refusing to allow me to see my niece, she asked if I would pick her up from school…45 minutes before dismissal. The people pleaser in me fought to over-explain myself because I knew my refusal to stop work and drive the hour there…and the hour back…would be used as a reason to rescind my inViTAtioN. Dropping everything to make sure they’re straight is always how she gets me to re-enter these toxic cycles. Being a ‘good’ sister overrides my desire to have her take accountability for her behavior and I fall right back into over giving. But being a doormat is now deaded so…I said “No.”. Ion feel like feeling played anymore.”