Soulution

“Seeing the good in people, before I find the bad, has never been my ministry. My upbringing conditioned me to seek out how they’ll be a problem for me first..because that protects me from being caught off guard. Which gives me a sense of security. Then I realized I was putting people in a box, that my perception wouldn’t allow them space to grow in. Because once I see someone as the problem…my soul won’t rest until I find my way away from them. But I’m starting to realize this approach…creates more problems. So I’m learning how to allow people to show up as they are. Without my need to pressure them into fitting into the unproblematic frame…that my psyche struggles to picture them in.”