MyForever
“It’s possible to outgrow a desire to entertain certain energies…but it’s impossible to outgrow our ability to attract them. IMO, the foundation laid by our parentals is what all of our relationships are built on…irrespective of how much healing we do. Which is why I feel like attracting certain aspects of both my parents in the people I interact with is a forever thing. Because we attract who we are and their blood will never not run through my veins. Learning how to navigate my emotions through the behavioral traits in them that trigger me is the only way I’ll ever have successful relationships. So the goal for me is to continue studying the trauma they gifted me. Not because I want to keep living in the past. But because I need to know how to respond to triggers that I’ll never not attract, in a healthier way then I used to.“