InThePaint

“The overall consensus is that her man is cOnTRoLLinG for wanting to see her without a painted face filter and…I’m trying to understand the issue. But I can’t because the real issue is insecurity. Most of us weren’t shown how to love our reality so the new norm is to overcompensate by wearing someone else’s face, hair, body and personality…while expecting who we are to be loved by a man. Natural girls have problems attracting authentic connections too though. Which is why self-love is so important to us. Because learning how to lay up, with or without a teammate, prevents the desire to alter who you are…just to be accepted by everyone else…but you.”