EnTRAPment

I now understand the convenience a child brings for some men, who want the option of keeping a certain female in their life. Vice versa. I, however, was a psychotic lunatic all throughout both of those long(ish) term relationships. So I had no idea why I was ever considered for the position of mother. After my healing began…I realized their reasoning stemmed from abandonment issues. Both men had unhealthy relationships with their mothers that left them feeling emotionally and physically discarded on some level. But like most people, acknowledging that is unheard of.